Dear Mike Cares, what advice would you give this parasitic whine maker?

DEAR MIKE CARES: I recently scheduled a last-minute consultation with my doctor that might result in surgery. My husband has a meeting during that time, which isn't actually necessary, but he feels he needs to attend. I feel he is choosing a non-urgent obligation over my more immediate concerns. All that said, I am capable of handling what comes my way by myself. I was just hoping for some emotional support from my spouse of 31 years. I have had plenty of that financially, but not emotionally. I'm trying to figure out why he's not taking my medical issue as seriously as I am. -- ON MY OWN IN WASHINGTON

DEAR ON MY OWN IN WASHINGTON: Hey, here’s some advice, next time you decide to make a last-minute appointment don’t expect everyone else around you to put their lives on hold.  For 31 years your husband has supported you financially and emotionally, which will never be enough for a ball-busting hypochondriac like you!  I bet he didn’t want to go on this appointment because he knew if the doctor had really bad news, he wouldn’t be able to hide his seriously glee filled smiling face.  Good Luck and Keep in Touch! Dear Mike Cares is also on X, Instagram and Facebook (whatever they are.) Email me your stupid questions at DearMikeCares@gmail.com